Let’s start by playing a game. Name a few qualities/features of yours which you find attractive.
If you named more than four, you’re doing incredible, my friend. And if you named less than that, this post is for you.
Having beneficial qualities or features that are appealing to the senses is what you term as “attractive”. When one person conveys something good about yourself, it’s easy to let it replay through your mind a few times and let yourself soak in the words for a bit. When a person tells you something ill about yourself, it’s even easier to let yourself succumb to the replays and be drenched in fear that the negative words said against you are true. This happens to the best of us( me too!) and no one is ever entirely free from feeling this way, especially when the words come from someone we know.